Wichita (wi-CHEE-ta) Gray, 28
year old grant writer for a small Chicago art museum, is unsure as to
where she wants to be at this stage of her life. But she's pretty
certain she doesn't want to be
defined by her lifelong friendship
with best buddy Jonah LiaKos. Increasingly worried, she
decides to "break up" with Jonz (if such a thing can even be done) on
the off chance that they are becoming the emotional equivalent of
But she picked a heck of a time
to kick her support system out from under herself. Her teen sister,
along with her young Romeo, has decided to camp out in her apartment.
Their misery-inducing parents, the same ones from whom Cheetah also ran
away as a teen, are haranguing her to bring the girl back. And the
return visit home only opens up painful new questions in Cheetah's mind and new holes in her
Toss in a one night stand
that should never have happened and perverse angst over someone else
snapping up Jonz now that she's tossed him away, Cheetah is in a constant
state of frantic soul searching.
Can she survive these
growing pains? And will she be able to keep her family and friendships
intact, or will they pass out of her life as she forges a new direction
worked for me:
Being in Cheetah's head was
an exhausting but thought-provoking experience. It was fascinating
to relive her youth with her and then see the mature woman connect the dots
of her history and reach an epiphany or two. (And unlike some chick lit heroines, I didn't find
Cheetah to be annoying. I'd be glad to have a cup of coffee with
Every girl should have a
Maybe it was just the train
tracks scene, but the story put me somewhat in mind of Stephen King's
"Stand by Me".
"Separation Anxiety" had a few
predictable plot points, but there were enough unexpected twists and turns
to keep me reading. The story also had enough substance to it that I
found myself still thinking about it days after I had closed the cover.
(In fact, there is a reader's guide at the back of the novel, but it doesn't really give any surprises away so some folks may enjoy looking
over the questions as they read.)
Size-wise Cheetah is sturdy like
a "corn-fed farm girl", but this isn't an issue in the book.
What didn't work for me:
Since the story is told from Cheetah's point of view we witness the
relationship dynamics only through her eyes and therefore don't really achieve
intimacy with the other characters except as Cheetah discovers more about them
herself. That can make for some frustrating moments for people who like
everything to be laid out in third person, with time spent in each of
the main characters' heads.
"Separation Anxiety" is a compelling tale of a young woman
rearranging her view of the world. Pop this must-read into your beach bag this
summer, but don't expect to find breezy fluff between its covers as you while away the hours
on the sand.
Warning: there are some coarse words and a few references to sexual
scenarios in this book.
If you liked "Separation Anxiety" you might also enjoy
"Love at Large",
"Coffee and Kung Fu",
"What a Girl Wants",
"Getting Over It",
"Bridget Jones's Diary",
"Good in Bed",
"Last Chance Saloon", "Jemima J."
and "Having It and Eating It".
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